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how to stop arguing

How do we stop arguing?

For this post, I reference; Hold Me Tight: Seven Conversations for a Lifetime of Love. Dr. Sue Johnson, 2008. Little, Brown & Co., New York. Let's be clear, all couples argue. Some couples have a long relationship and still argue and some couples don't. Well, arguments and disagreements can have ...
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The 3 Demon Dialogues that tear couples relationship apart.

For this post I reference; Hold Me Tight: Seven Conversations for a Lifetime of Love. Dr. Sue Johnson, 2008. Little, Brown & Co., New York. Couples usually say they are fighting about the Finances, Children or sex. Some couples also say that their communication has broken down or they cannot ...
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what do couples argue about

What do couples really argue about?

For this post, I reference;Young, M. (2005). Creating a Confluence: An Interview With Susan Johnson and John Gottman. The Family Journal: Counseling and Therapy for Couples and Families, 13(2), 219-225. I posed the same question to some of my friends and they gave me so many answers. With their permission ...
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Why am I blogging?

Hi there, my name is Azah and I am a relationship counsellor and I specialise in couple counselling. I have been a counsellor for almost 10 years now. I am originally from Malaysia but now I am based in London. I have a drive in me to learn how to ...
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coronavirus

Physical Isolation not Social Isolation

Happy St Patrick's Day! As we all do our best to curb the spread of the virus by self-isolation or by working from home, it can take a toll on our relationships, our mental health and our physical health too. Personally, the words @socialisolation feels like we shouldn't talk or ...
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