Couples arguing

For this post, I reference; Hold Me Tight: Seven Conversations for a Lifetime of Love. Dr. Sue Johnson, 2008. Little, Brown & Co., New York. Let's be clear, all couples argue. Some couples have a long relationship and still argue and some couples don't. Well, arguments and disagreements can have two effects. It can either be an opportunity to grow and look into your partner's need and deepening the relationship. Or couples can get into patterns of argument that can be a source of distress.…

For this post I reference; Hold Me Tight: Seven Conversations for a Lifetime of Love. Dr. Sue Johnson, 2008. Little, Brown & Co., New York. Couples usually say they are fighting about the Finances, Children or sex. Some couples also say that their communication has broken down or they cannot communicate well. Other couples point the finger of blame at their partner and that he/she needs to change her ways before they can find a solution. What's happening to the couples is just the tip…